While you are out there giving your best, he barely does anything. I know it feels personal, but it’s not. Like I said, if he does not want to commit to you under any circumstances, then there is little to nothing that you can do to change that. What did you bring to the relationship that was good and that you could use in your next relationship? Ellen was upset. Maybe he has valid reasons. What is something you accepted in this relationship that you will never accept again? He always told me that he loved me, it wasn’t until it was much too late that I realized it was not enough. And trust me, it will take a lot more time to actually admit it that he loves you. Even if he’s busy, he’ll make time for you. What he means: I’m not interested. The next thing he said was 'I want us to be friends, good friends.' He’s got your back. We spend too much time thinking about how we are loving him, and not enough time evaluating the love he gives to us. Men can be very selfish in the sense that he does not want to commit to you but he just wants to keep you around. Does He Love Me? Your email address will not be published. With that foundation in place, let me now explain the 3 reasons why I believe that “Jesus loves me” is not enough. I also recommend that you read my blog signs that is not feeling you for the long term for more on this issue. Do not let a man play funny with his words if he loves you then require a commitment, if he does not want to do that then he can love you from afar. Trust me, I know how hard it is to extricate yourself from this kind of situation. I like it a lot! This is usually when I receive the desperate messages from women wanting to know what is going on. He told me he was leaning towards breaking up and that’s when I said goodbye. You cannot make anyone do anything that they do not want to do. They think if only they did more for him, if only they were prettier, if only they could help him learn to trust again, if only they were a little more of this and a little less of that… everything would be different. You just had a guy you were casually seeing who never wanted to take it any further, and you’re left with these visions of what could have been. It would utterly just disable me for days. I wrote about this in my why you should date more than one man blog (which you can click here to read). It doesn’t matter. I am telling you this because you are giving him something he has not earned. Awesome blog! He’s Not Afraid To Share Everything. I believe he truly loved me but his actions did NOT support his love 4 me as his woman. He Still Loves Me C F G Am Took me a while but I'm finally here Am G G Dm7 So I just wanna testify, make it crystal clear C F G See I've been picked out to be picked on Am C Talked about, ou If a guy is truly interested in you, nothing will stop him. 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